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Mindful Sleep: Finding Calm Before Bed
Some days are heavy, and our inner critic rises. Mindful sleep isn’t about fixing or doing: it’s about allowing, letting go, and simply being. This reflection explores how mindful sleep, gentle self-talk, and presence can soothe the nervous system, helping you rest and wake renewed.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Feb 153 min read


Growing Emotional Strength in Everyday Moments
This article shares psychologically grounded techniques for building emotional strength and resilience, including mindful breathing, journaling, boundaries, and nervous system regulation. Written from a trauma-informed and somatic psychology perspective, it offers gentle support for navigating life’s ups and downs.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Jan 274 min read


The Tauranga Landslide: When the Ground Gives Way --- Finding Steadiness After Disaster Through a Somatic Experiencing® and Psychological Perspective
When natural disasters strike, the impact goes far beyond buildings and roads. Explore how the body, mind, and community respond, and discover practical strategies to find steadiness through Somatic Experiencing and psychological insight.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Jan 236 min read


Effective Emotional Regulation Strategies for a Balanced Life
Emotional regulation strategies offer a healthy way of relating to emotional experience. They support noticing what is present, making sense of feelings, and responding with greater steadiness rather than reactivity.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Jan 74 min read


Easing Anxiety Through Somatic Therapy: When the Body Speaks First
So often, healing begins not with words, but with noticing what’s happening in the body.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Dec 5, 20252 min read


Beyond thinking...
A reflective piece exploring the experience of dropping beneath the thinking mind — into the heart space, where the body holds a wisdom.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Oct 31, 20253 min read


How do I integrate Somatic Experiencing® (SE™) into my practice? Reflections of a psychologist
Curious about somatic therapy? Through three client vignettes, discover how Somatic Experiencing (SE) uses body awareness, movement, and nervous system cues to help release tension, ease worry, and bring clients into greater ease. This blog offers an invitational look at how small, embodied steps can support emotional balance and everyday resilience.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Oct 4, 202512 min read


Beyond Talk: Why Somatic Therapy Works
Discover how somatic therapy helps trauma and/or overwhelming stress heal from the body, restoring balance, resilience, and wellbeing beyond traditional talk therapy.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Aug 30, 20253 min read


A Gentle Space to Begin Again
This post is about why the work matters to me, the questions clients often bring, and the hope that it is possible not just to survive, but to flourish.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Jul 25, 20253 min read


A Glimpse into the Heart of Somatic Experiencing®
A brief glimpse into the essence of what happens in an Somatic Experiencing® process
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Jun 4, 20252 min read


How to Maintain Your Emotional Health After Therapy
So, you’ve done the work. Therapy has helped you move through a difficult season, and now you’re in a steadier, brighter space. That’s such a milestone. But I often hear the same question at this point: “How do I keep this going? How do I maintain my emotional health?” It’s an excellent question — because emotional health isn’t something we “fix once and for all.” It’s more like tending a garden or keeping a house clean. It takes small, regular care to keep things in good sha
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
May 4, 20255 min read


Why Therapy Feels So Hard in the Beginning (and Why That’s Okay)
If you’ve ever started therapy and thought, “Wow, this feels harder than I expected,” you’re not alone. Many people imagine therapy...
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Apr 4, 20252 min read


What is Emotional Health?
Emotional health highlights the role of our emotions in our daily functioning. Together with our thoughts and beliefs, and the way we are in this world, both with ourselves and others, we can think of it as the more inclusive term, mental health, a state of psychological well-being. Having an academic background, I observe my mind going into the details of every word (like the difference between emotions and feelings), and drawing on a variety of philosophies and theories.
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Mar 5, 20252 min read


Exploring Inner Space: A Starting Point for Emotional Health
The role of nervous system regulation to manage your emotional well-being. Interoception, the ability to notice and interpret internal sensations that influences how we feel...
Carien Lubbe-De Beer
Feb 5, 20254 min read
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